Wednesday, October 31, 2007

The Halloween homeless kid

I was reflecting this morning on Halloween's past as I watched my son parade around First Baptist Pre-school in his cowboy costume that he's wearing for the 2nd year in a row. I remembered what my Halloweens used to look like. We were super poor growing up and I remember on more than one occasion dressing up as a "Hobo" to go trick or treating. I'd wear grubby clothes...tie a bandanna to the end of a stick...and my mom would give me a beard by wiping vasoline on my face and attaching coffee grounds to it.
I don't know why but it just struck me for the first time this morning. I used to dress up as a homeless person on Halloween and ask people for candy???!!? Why was that ok? How insensitive to dress up and make fun of someone at a lower economic level than myself. Anyways...I just came to that realization this morning and thought I'd share.
Here's another Halloween tid bit...you're not opening up your child up to the dark underworld if you dress them up like Harry Potter or Sponge Bob. (Please don't forward this blog to Focus on the Family!)

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

So funny that you mention Harry Potter...becuase I'm totally dressed up as him right now! Now I've got the glasses and robe to match my awesome accent! Karen

escamillaweddings said...

i guess it depends on the point of view of dressing up for halloween in general. you weren't necessarily "making fun" of a homeless person but rather playing the part of a character. my view is that everyone who dresses up as anyone for halloween, whether it be a witch, an accountant, a pirate or a fairy is just playing a character from life or a book or something made up on his/her own.

the problem isn't you dressing up that way, the problem is the response of others to how you're dressed up.

lovemyguys said...

Good thing I didn't warp my kid. Robbie was Harry Potter last year, and we dress Cam up as Harry pretty often. Complete with the sharpie scar. Not so much fun to try to wash off before Daddy visits, but he loves it. (and looks stinkin cute, I might add...)

Jeff and Yvonne Weinstein said...

Looking at it from your mom's perspective, she was just lovingly providing what she could so that you could fit into society's celebration of October 31. My mom did the same thing- and neither of them have a mean or insensitive bone in their bodies. They were just loving moms doing the best they could for their kids. Just making sure we did not feel left out. (and it worked, didn't it :) )

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